You can’t because if you lose it, you lose it and if you win it, you lose it. Lawrence ButlerĮvery noble work is at first impossible. If war is the violent resolution of conflict, then peace is not the absence of conflict, but rather, the ability to resolve conflict without violence. No one in history has ever been insulted into agreement. There are two ways of meeting difficulties: You alter the difficulties or you alter yourself meeting them.
Whenever you see darkness, there is extraordinary opportunity for the light to burn brighter. The opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth. – Peter Blockįorgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. Transformation comes more from pursuing profound questions than seeking practical answers. Marriage means expectations and expectations mean conflict. Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret. Never ascribe to an opponent motives meaner than your own. – Marcus AureliusĮvery problem has a gift for you in its hands. The more we run from conflict, / The more it masters us / The more we try to avoid it, / The more it controls us / The less we fear conflict, / The less it confuses us / The less we deny our differences, / The less they divide us. – AristotleĪnyone can become angry-that is easy, but to be angry with the right person at the right time, and for the right purpose and in the right way-that is not easy. To avoid criticism say nothing, do nothing, be nothing. Only in the frictionless vacuum of a nonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasive friction of conflict. Most misunderstandings in the world could be avoided if people would simply take the time to ask, “What else could this mean?” – Shannon AlderĬhange means movement. Scrub them off every once in awhile, or the light won’t come in. Your assumptions are your windows on the world.
– African proverbīegin challenging your own assumptions. Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
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